Back when I was seven, my parents took me to a friend’s house for a BBQ and I knew him – he was our Milkman …

I didn’t know it, but I was about to get the best business lesson of my life from the Milko.

You see, when we arrived we pulled up to a massive house, with really expensive cars and I was really confused.  I asked my Dad, “Dad, is the Milko rich?”

He told me to go see his friend and ask him about it.  Being seven years old, I was extremely tactful of course.

“You’re our Milko right? … How does a Milko get to be rich …?”

The reply is what has set me up for where I am today.  Now, remember I was seven so this is paraphrasing …

“Son, you don’t make money selling milk, you make money selling milk runs.  I buy a milk run, build it up and sell it on, then I go and buy another run, build it up and sell it on.  Each time I sell a milk run, I have another big amount of cash to invest.  Most people think that running the same company all their life is the way to go, but it’s not, it’s about making capital every few years and investing it.”

The essence of what he taught me, and now you.

You don’t make money running businesses, you make money building them up and selling them.  You have to realize a capital gain to be able to use it.   Yes, of course the profit and wages you pay yourself along the way are great, but shouldn’t you at least examine what you might get if you put your business up for sale?

Many business owners we work with are amazed at what capital value their company has.  It’s often enough for people to retire on, but they don’t know it yet.

Think of it this way … If every couple of years you bought a run down house and renovated it and then on sold it, you’d make good money.  What if you bought a small beach shack and over many years built it into a beachside mansion, what would it be worth today?

I just think you should be looking at business the same way.  You have invested a lot of time and effort building an asset and it may be time to sell it and turn your skills to another business or opportunity to build.

The best part here is that unlike property, business values are solely determined by the revenues and profits.  Buying a run down or, as my Milko did, a business in a newly developing area and building it up over a year or two adds great capital value.

But for many business owners, what if you built it over 10 or 20 years, where would its value be?

Now, here’s the challenge, some of you have built yourself so tightly into the day-to-day of the business, it’s a trap.  In other words, the business won’t work unless you’re there.  So, when you go to find out how much it’s worth, the number will be a lot lower than you expected.

Not only that, if the value is lower than you expected, I’ll bet your not pulling anywhere near the profit you should be out of it month to month.

If you’d built it with a view to selling it, I’m certain you would have done a few things differently and made it not so reliant upon your skills, your ability and your work ethic.  Every business owner has a choice and, the ability to learn how to make their business work without them.

If your plan is to sell it, how can you over the next year or two extract yourself?  Who knows, if it runs without you, then maybe you’ll want to keep it.

Bottom Line … If you value your time in building an asset, then sell the asset and use your time to build another and another.

This article is reprinted courtesy of My Business magazine, one of the leading business publications in Australia.

Anyone can be a father, but it takes a lot of work to be a DAD ...

Remember kids spell LOVE their own way ... T.I.M.E.

Spend the day with your kids ...

Brad Sugars

But away from business, these next few days I am Mr Mom, my wife is on a trip with her Dad and I am having a few days of Daddy, daughter time as well ...

My favorite song with the girls (yes I have two) at the moment is I'm cleaning my gun ...

They are still young but I know that just like business I am learning at every step how to be a great Dad.  Not easy, not something we will ever Master I think until we are grand-parents, but suffice to say, a rewarding challenge.

I use a lot of my coaching skills and techniques with the girls ...

1.  Always answer YES with conditions, like yes you can have that if you have your own money her to buy it ...

2.  Always use questions, "do you think that was a good choice or a bad choice?"

3.  Always focus on the positive, NOT Stop jumping on the bed, but Please get on the floor now ...

4.  And the best lesson, goals are good, but cannot always be a carrot, sometimes you need a stick and I have to remember I am their Dad, not their friend ...

Enjoy your parenting and finally, the best lesson I ever got about parenting ...

Kids spell LOVE ... T.I.M.E.

Brad